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  • ‘I Can Be Myself More’: What Students Told Us About Pride Groups in Schools

    I can be myself more': what students told us about pride groups in schools

    For many LGBTQIA+ students, school can feel like a place where they have to hide who they are. But in a growing number of schools, pride groups—also known as Gender-Sexuality Alliances (GSAs)—are changing that. These student-led clubs offer a rare space where young people can be their authentic selves without fear of judgement.

    Recent research that directly asked students about their experiences reveals just how transformative these groups can be. From providing a ‘lifeline’ of support to fostering friendships and advocacy, pride groups are more than just a club—they are a vital part of a school’s culture. Yet, they are not always easy to set up or sustain. Here’s what students told us, and why it matters.

    A Safe Haven in the School Day

    When researchers spoke to students about their pride groups, one phrase kept coming up: ‘I can be myself more.’ For many, the group is the only place in school where they feel they can drop their guard. As one student put it, ‘It’s like a second family—you don’t have to explain yourself.’

    This sense of safety is not just a nice-to-have; it has real, measurable benefits. Studies have shown that schools with GSAs see lower rates of depression, anxiety, and suicidal ideation among LGBTQIA+ students. Bullying and harassment decrease, and students report feeling a stronger sense of belonging. They are also more likely to attend school and engage academically. In other words, pride groups are not just about socialising—they are about helping students thrive.

    More Than a Club: What Students Value

    Students described several key benefits of their pride groups:

    • Emotional support: The group provides a confidential space to talk about identity, coming out, or just the stresses of school life.
    • Friendship and community: Many students form their closest friendships through the group, finding peers who share similar experiences.
    • Identity exploration: For those questioning their identity, the group offers a non-judgemental space to explore without pressure.
    • A sense of agency: Students often take the lead in organising events, awareness campaigns, and advocacy, giving them a sense of empowerment.

    One student noted, ‘It’s not just about being gay or trans—it’s about being a person. We talk about everything, and we support each other.’ Another added, ‘I’ve learned so much about myself and about how to stand up for others.’

    The Challenges of Keeping Pride Groups Alive

    Despite their value, pride groups are fragile. Students and staff alike spoke about the difficulties of sustaining them. The most common challenges include:

    • Over-reliance on one teacher: If the staff facilitator leaves, the group often collapses. As one student said, ‘Our group ended when our teacher moved schools. No one else wanted to take it on.’
    • Fear of backlash: Some schools are hesitant to start a group due to concerns about parental complaints or community opposition. This is especially true in areas where LGBTQIA+ topics are contested.
    • Lack of funding and time: Groups often meet during lunch or after school, and they may have no budget for resources or events.
    • Student burnout: Organising a group takes energy, and with exams and other commitments, student leaders can burn out.

    These challenges mean that many groups are short-lived. But the research also shows that when schools invest in these groups—by training staff, providing resources, and embedding them in a whole-school approach to inclusion—they are much more likely to thrive.

    A Whole-School Effort

    Students were clear that a pride group cannot work in isolation. It needs to be part of a broader culture of respect and inclusion. This means having visible support from school leadership, clear anti-bullying policies that explicitly protect LGBTQIA+ students, and curriculum that reflects diverse identities.

    One student explained, ‘The group is great, but it doesn’t matter if the rest of the school is still homophobic. We need teachers to call out slurs and lessons that talk about LGBTQ+ people in a positive way.’

    This echoes what researchers have long argued: GSAs are effective, but they are not a silver bullet. They must be accompanied by systemic changes to create a truly inclusive environment.

    The Bigger Picture

    Pride groups are part of a broader movement toward LGBTQIA+ inclusion in schools. In the UK, the Equality Act 2010 protects students from discrimination, and Ofsted inspects schools on their approach to bullying and inclusion. Yet there is no legal requirement to have a pride group, and many schools still do not have one.

    Where groups do exist, they often face an uncertain future. But the voices of students are clear: these groups matter. They save lives, build community, and help young people feel that they belong. As one student put it, ‘When I walk into that room, I can finally breathe.’

    Pride groups are more than just a trend—they are a lifeline for many LGBTQIA+ students. The research shows that when schools support these groups, students feel safer, happier, and more engaged. But sustaining them requires commitment from the whole school community. By listening to students and investing in inclusive practices, schools can ensure that every young person has a place where they can be themselves.

    Summary

    • Pride groups (GSAs) provide a safe, affirming space for LGBTQIA+ students and allies, leading to lower depression, anxiety, and bullying.
    • Students report that these groups are often the only place where they can be their authentic selves without fear of judgement.
    • Key challenges include over-reliance on a single teacher, fear of parental backlash, lack of funding, and student burnout.
    • For lasting impact, pride groups must be part of a whole-school culture of inclusion, with supportive leadership and policies.
    • Despite challenges, students consistently describe pride groups as ‘a lifeline’ and ‘a second family.’

    FAQ

    Q: Are pride groups only for LGBTQIA+ students?
    A: No, most pride groups welcome allies—students who support LGBTQIA+ friends and want to learn more. Many students attend to support others or explore their own identity.

    Q: What are the main benefits of pride groups?
    A: Research shows they reduce depression, anxiety, and suicidal ideation among LGBTQIA+ students, decrease bullying, and improve school belonging and academic engagement.

    Q: Why do some pride groups fail?
    A: Common reasons include the departure of a key teacher, lack of funding or time, fear of parental backlash, and student burnout. Without school-wide support, groups can struggle to survive.

    Q: Do schools have to have a pride group?
    A: No, there is no legal requirement in the UK. However, schools have a duty under the Equality Act 2010 to protect students from discrimination, and Ofsted inspects their approach to inclusion.

    Q: How can schools support pride groups?
    A: By providing trained staff facilitators, funding, and time, and by embedding LGBTQIA+ inclusion in the curriculum and anti-bullying policies. A whole-school approach is essential for sustainability.